Bridezilla Goes Viral After Her Outrageous Demands Are Leaked Online

By Aileen D

If you are lucky, you will only get married once in your lifetime. You will want to splurge on this special occasion. After all, how often do loved ones actually gather from different parts of the globe to stand witness to you pledging your life to another?

Instead of bringing out the best in her, this bride-to-be transformed into a bridezilla. We can’t tell if she had been this way all along, if it was the pressure of the big day or the lack of sleep. But people couldn’t recognize her for the insane demands she was imposing. People wanted the whole wedding to be done and over with stat! Read on to find out more about this dreaded bride.

It All Started With…

This bride publicly posting details about her wedding. “That’s odd. Why would she have to post these things when she can only invite a handful of people?” Guests were left questioning her motives. She had always been a private person.

Even without her posting, all eyes were set on her. People wanted to congratulate the couple and wish them a lifetime of marital bliss. It was a fairy tale ending fit for the two who had been together for nearly 8 years. So they let this pass. No biggie, right?

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Made Especially For

It was her special day, so we could understand why she wanted everything to go as she had planned. But the fault lay in her micro-managing every little detail, even what each guest was supposed to wear. She passes it off as visual appeal.

We don’t know about you, but we have never heard of a strict dress code passing off as visual effects. It may help to have a motif for the wedding and a designated color scheme but nothing as bizarre as individualized attire for each guest.

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Too Much Time

While we applaud this bride for informing everyone as early as a year-and-a-half prior the wedding of the dress code, that’s an awful lot of time. Wear something nice she says. Well, fashion trends can change drastically in a year.

What may be nice now could be out of fashion in a year. Besides, the bride may decide to change the motif last minute — at the expense guests who have invested in wearing nice clothing. Not a pretty thought, isn’t it?

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Taking Prisoners

If you thought kids were safe then you thought wrong. Parents who decided to bring their children had to dress them up in red dresses or suits. Everything had to be red from head to toe. Red earrings, red cuffs, red hair ties. Nothing is exempt.

Kids would have to group themselves into a heart, hence the blood-red attire. This bride was very particular about the shade. Not maroon, not orange-red. It had to be heart-thumping, blood red. Well, there was something thumping alright. Guests were growing indignant by the minute.

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Looking Dapper

The bride wouldn’t disclose many details. She wanted the big reveal on the big day. She had only gone so far as to tell everyone that there would be a synchronized dance they would participate in, after which they had to change into a new set of clothes.

So, not only did they need to buy expensive clothes, as wedding attire usually is, but they needed two sets! Weddings are already an expensive affair for guests, between travel, clothing, and accomodations. No one wanted to spend more than they had to.

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What a Hassle

Imagine the hassle of traveling nearly 10 hours with luggage checked in just so you could comply with this bridezilla’s requests. Would two or three luggage pieces cut the set of attires? We think not. And get this, it’s coming out of your pocket.

We’re sure the guests were secretly scheming how to get out of it. Or, somehow, to have alternate, cheaper options. But, nope, this Bridezilla demanded that her special day goes according to plan, even if it made everyone else miserable.

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Slap in the Face

This is why framing your message is just as important as the content. Guests couldn’t believe what they were seeing after seeing this next bit. Is it too late to cancel that RSVP? The wedding is still a year from now, isn’t it?

Any self-respecting guest will want to look the part at the wedding. This is one of the few things that doesn’t need to be said, and if so, it might be better to tell it in person than over a Facebook post. It kinda kills the vibe.

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Say That Again?

Just like us, that message left guests raising their eyebrows. Everyone was tempted to huddle around and ask are we really going to this wedding? Because $1000 for a single-use attire just won’t cut it, especially if the bride is giving us an attitude like this.

As if reading their minds, the bride explained, “the wedding will be more than a year from now and 1000 dollars divided over that many months doesn’t amount to much.” Would she feel the same way if she had to reimburse each guest for expenses?

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It Gets Worse

The financial demand surely put many guests off and the guest list was almost certainly reduced. We bet many retracted RSVPs were submitted after the dress code details were given. Still, those remaining didn’t know it could still go downhill.

They’d prepared for undisclosed choreography, spent thousands of dollars on several outfits, and assumed they knew the deal. However, the Bridezilla continued to show her colors and sent out more instructions to her guests. Can you guess what she asked?

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Group Yourselves Into…

This bride wasn’t done with her list of demands. She was grouping people according to weight. If you were fit enough, you had to invest in Burberry and Loubotin. But what would happen if you had a love for carbs?

Well, those who were on the heavy side would have the privilege of coming to the wedding, but they had to remain unseen. Black sweaters, black heels, black suits — all that’s left is handing them a towel and asking them to cater to guests.

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Body Shaming Is Too Much

It’s pretty common for brides-to-be to go on strict diet and workout plans. They want to look their best as they walk down the aisle. And they want those bridal photos to immortalize what they consider to be their ideal bodies.

But this is all a matter of perspective. Women should be happy with the body they’re in. At the very least, they should keep their negative body image issues to themselves. Don’t put any of your insecurities on your guests!

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Hard Pass

If you were wondering what each group would look like when dressed for the part, then look no further. Below we have a green velvet sweater, orange suede pants, and a Burberry scarf. It doesn’t look like a $1000 outfit if you ask us.

Imagine getting that ripped body and those toned arms only to sport a shabby outfit like this. It is almost something that you would ordinarily wear to work. What is the point of dressing up for this wedding at all?

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Who’s Winning?

After seeing this attire, we can’t help but want to gain weight. Anything is better than having to wear a purple fuzzy jacket, all-white trainers, plain glow sticks and a soda hat to a wedding. As we look at the couple take their vows, we’re left to ask who’s winning?

If you’re aiming to look distinguished and sophisticated, an all-black outfit might cut it. To tell the truth, we would rather die than get caught wearing this ensemble. Someone’s suited for a party, alright, except it’s one we wouldn’t want to go to.

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Gaining Weight

Those who still wanted to go to the wedding were seriously considering bulking or gaining massive amounts of weight. Reach 161 lbs and you can sport this timeless look for less than a thousand dollars. Is that a win or what?

All you need to do is to wear a black sweater and black pants of any material. Pair it off with some gold and you could look effortlessly chic. With the right fitting, women can outshine the bride and any of her bridesmaids.

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Center of Attention

It’s nothing new to hear about brides that want to be the center of attention. They will throw a tantrum if anyone else shows up in a nicer gown, and heaven forbid someone else wears white. These are understandable, but this bride took it too far.

Why does she need to put everyone else down to lift herself up? Invitees were likely second-guessing their friendship with her. She was quickly earning a spot as one of the worst Bridezillas. Would it even be worth it to go to this wedding?

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Did You See Mike?

Last but not the least, men weighing over 200 lbs are expected to wear a camouflage suit with black sneakers. Just in case you haven’t been able to hit the gym a year and a half before the wedding, you can do a high-intensity workout on the big day.

It almost seems like this bride could care less about what her guests would look like. She needn’t say it, but it was obvious why she wanted heavyset guests to wear an all-black / camouflage attire. She didn’t want them ruining the group shots.

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Someone Needed to Say It

We forgot to tell one other important detail. As it turns out, this wedding would have been held in Hawaii. Guests instantly took to social media to air out their concerns. It almost looked like they were prepping for sauna day.

Had this bride ever been to Hawaii? With semi-tropical weather all year round, Hawaii would not take too kindly to its guests wearing sweaters and full-length body suits. When on the island, the rule is to wear loose, breathable fabrics.

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You Will Be Paying

A handful of guests eagerly took a screenshot of the bride’s post and then posted it online on Facebook and Reddit. Many criticized this bride for her ridiculous demands. Did this bride really think she would get away body-shaming her guests?

With nearly 10,000 re-shares, this bride reached instant notoriety on the web. She had been receiving hate messages from strangers when she posted this very important update. She warned invitees who had leaked the dress code that they would be paying.

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Lying to Herself

You would have thought that with the post, this bride knew who amongst her guests had been the snitch. But she hadn’t. She decided to go on a fishing expedition to find out who did what. She took to Amazon to buy a special item.

Now, does that scream desperate or what? It hadn’t even been a week and we can tell all the things this bride was bad at. She’s bad at picking out fashion items and color schemes. She’s bad at spending within her means, and she’s terrible at lying.

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The Costs Keep Adding Up

As we said before, weddings are expensive affairs for both the newlyweds and the guests. Destination weddings are even more so. Add on the ridiculous outfits, and possibly expensive therapy to handle such an event, the bride’s guest list kept dropping.

If you’re going to demand so much of your guests, the costs should be covered. Pay for airfare and hotels. But there’s another thing that this Bridezilla cheaped out on and demanded that her guests help with. The food and catering weren’t covered!

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All the Help She Can Get

You would think that with a 24K-themed wedding, the young couple would be able to afford a catering service and crew. But she also relied on her guests to clean up after dinner and to contribute to the honeymoon, too.

Of course, these were sensible alternatives if you wanted out of the synchronized dancing. The more we listen to this bride yap about how expensive her wedding is, the more we want to tell her to take two years into saving up for the expenses.

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Wedding Rehearsal

So imagine wearing any of these, and taking to social media to air out your frustration. It might not have been the wisest thing to do, but it’s sure understandable. Who wouldn’t make fun of this bride for this dress code?

On top of that, all of you were presumed guilty for ratting out the bride on social media. The only way to prove your innocence was to appear at the rehearsal party, probably pitch in a dollar for that polygraph machine, and then tell the truth.

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Something Else Needs Healing

We bet this bride wouldn’t be able to handle being told the truth that the color scheme is horrendous, or the hassle of dancing when she could hire a DJ to entertain the guests. She couldn’t hear anyone out of the noise inside her head.

The only people who managed to believe anything she was saying were probably disillusioned or downright lying to themselves. Guests had no need for spiritual healing. But we’re sure someone else does, and a visit to the shrink might cut it.

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Warding Off Evil

It serves this bride right that she was receiving backlash on the internet. Many Redditors were curious about the dress codes for the overweight. Just what do an all-black outfit, soda hat, and camouflage suit have to do with spiritual healing?

All that for a thousand dollars? With a couple hundred, we are certain that she could hire a bunch of priests and supernatural healers to ward off evil spirits at the event. The only problem is that the bride might be absent from her own wedding.

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Feeding the Frenzy

Call it all you want, Miss, but you can’t fool us. It’s clear that you’re discriminating against people based on weight and body size. Don’t bring the devil into this. You can’t blame something which had nothing to do with your marriage vows.

If you take a minute to think about it, the concept of the devil matching with the colors is dreadful. If the camo and black represent the devil, does she mean that those over a certain weight are evil and represent ill things to come?

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Inexplicable Hat

And what is up with that soda hat? Just how can something like that help grant this bride’s wishes for a lifetime of marital bliss? We usually think of soda hats as something lazy divorcees wear on game day so they don’t have to get up for drinks.

She could have lit a handful of candles, whispered her heart’s desire, and then blown them out. We may not be spiritual healers but that almost always works. Maybe some soothing lavender to calm her down and drag this Bridezilla back to earth.

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Say What?

This bride wasn’t going to let a lot of naysayers from ruining her vibe. She went on to lecture people about her and her husband-to-be’s background. Not only were they spiritual healers with experience for over 10 years. But they regularly engaged in psychic practices.

While touring Italy a decade back, she happened to bump into her now-fiancé in a psychic desensitization chamber. We may not be experts in that field but we do know that the apt term for that is a sensory deprivation tank. Did she say she had 10 years of experience?

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Save Up for It

There are just a lot of things in her story that make little sense. For this next bit, she explains why people had to wear thousand-dollar clothing. If guests wore that pricey attire, chances are, the couple would grow into that abundance too.

What does someone else’s expenses have to do with the riches you wish to receive? You could ask your guests to pitch in or you could work for it, which a sensible middle-class couple should do throughout their lifetime. Just some unsolicited advice there.

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Warding Themselves Off

In only a matter of days, this bride managed to cast herself in a negative light, burn bridges with friends, and cut the guest list in half. She might not have been expecting that but like she said, it’s like the evil warding itself off from the wedding.

Guests found themselves investing more energy in this wedding than they had to, and instead of wishing the couple happiness, they couldn’t help but feel the opposite. It might be better to skip the occasion altogether than begrudgingly attend it.

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Calling It Off

We haven’t received any update about that polygraph party, or that wedding. But like they say, no news is good news. If this issue has died down then that means people weren’t showering this bride-to-be with the attention she so craved.

And with little to no-attention from friends and family members, this bride-to-be could learn to be more considerate about other people’s needs and preferences. No one wanted to know how this marriage turned out. Frankly, it just wasn’t worth the time and the thousand dollars.

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